In a world where love stories are often filled with grand gestures and extravagant weddings, Gabby Windey and Robby Hoffman chose a path that was simple, heartfelt, and truly reflective of their relationship. The Bachelorette alum and Traitors star, Gabby Windey, recently revealed that she had secretly tied the knot with comedian and writer Robby Hoffman in a spontaneous Las Vegas wedding. The couple, who began dating in August 2023, made the decision to exchange vows on January 11, 2025, in a budget-friendly yet incredibly romantic $799 ceremony.
With a limousine, a minister, and a whole lot of love, Windey and Hoffman’s wedding proved that true romance isn’t about how much you spend but rather about the love and connection between two people. This article dives deep into their beautiful love story, the spontaneous nature of their wedding, the emotional proposal, and their journey as a couple.
The Love Story of Gabby Windey and Robby Hoffman
Gabby Windey first gained fame as a contestant on The Bachelor before making her mark as a co-lead on The Bachelorette Season 19. However, her search for love on reality television did not lead her to ‘the one.’ Instead, her real love story began off-screen, when she met Robby Hoffman, an accomplished comedian and writer.
Windey made headlines in August 2023 when she revealed she was in a relationship with Hoffman. The revelation came as a surprise to many, as she had previously been engaged to Erich Schwer, her final pick from The Bachelorette. However, her relationship with Hoffman felt different. It was organic, filled with laughter, deep conversations, and a genuine connection that she had never experienced before.
The couple’s chemistry was undeniable, and their bond only grew stronger over time. They frequently shared glimpses of their relationship on social media, showing the world their playful and affectionate dynamic. Despite the public attention, they remained authentic and true to themselves, prioritizing their love over any external pressures.
The Proposal: A Crossword Puzzle That Changed Everything
One of the most unique and heartwarming aspects of Windey and Hoffman’s love story is how Robby popped the question. Instead of a traditional grand proposal, Hoffman chose something deeply meaningful to both of them—a crossword puzzle.
Windey recounted the moment in an interview, describing how Hoffman had given her a crossword to solve. As she worked through the puzzle, she started noticing words that didn’t seem to make sense. Suddenly, she realized that the puzzle spelled out:
“WILL YOU MARRY ME, GABBY?”
At first, Windey was confused. “We literally got to the final one… and the rest of it—WILL YOU MARRY ME—existed. And she was like, ‘LYREB?’ I finally had to just say it. When you plan, God laughs. And she went, ‘Baby??’ and I had the ring,” Windey shared.
The unconventional proposal was a perfect representation of their relationship—fun, clever, and filled with surprises. They were engaged for just a day before deciding to elope, embracing the spontaneity that had defined their relationship from the start.
The Spontaneous Las Vegas Wedding
The decision to get married in Las Vegas was made on a whim. Windey and Hoffman had recently evacuated Los Angeles due to the wildfires, and amidst the uncertainty, they realized what mattered most—each other.
As Windey explained, “We had just evacuated from the fires. Literally cue Rihanna, ‘We found love in a hopeless place.’ What better time to get married than right now? Because if the world is ending, we want to be with each other.”
With that mindset, they quickly made arrangements for an intimate and affordable wedding at a Las Vegas chapel. Their wedding package, which cost $799, included a limousine, a minister, and a charming ceremony space decorated with a white flower arch.
Windey walked down the aisle in a beautiful white lace long-sleeved gown, holding a bouquet of red roses. Meanwhile, Hoffman stood at the altar, looking dashing in a blue button-down shirt and slacks. The couple chose to walk down the aisle to the song “Hot to Go” by Chappell Roan, a fun and upbeat choice that reflected their personality.
When Windey reached the altar, instead of diving straight into vows, the couple held hands and danced together, adding a playful and deeply personal touch to their ceremony.
One of the most memorable moments of the wedding was when Hoffman broke a vase to symbolize the fragility of marriage. Afterward, she burst into song, clapping her hands with joy, while Windey laughed and joined in. Their friend added to the moment by scattering flower petals around them, creating a scene straight out of a romantic comedy.
Following the ceremony, they took fun, candid photos, celebrating their new journey as spouses. Windey later shared, “It was literally the best night of my life. We were dancing, taking pictures… It was the best.”
Why Their Wedding Was Perfect
Although Windey and Hoffman’s wedding was far from traditional, it was everything they had ever wanted. It was intimate, spontaneous, and completely true to who they are as a couple. Windey reflected on the experience, saying:
“I never envisioned my wedding as a kid or anything, but that’s part of what made this feel so right. Actually being there and feeling it, it was so us.”
She also joked that, in some ways, their wedding still had a bit of a Bachelor Nation feel because there were roses everywhere—a nod to her past on reality TV.
For Hoffman, the experience was equally magical. She called it “the best wedding I’ve ever been to.” Their wedding wasn’t about elaborate décor or a grand guest list—it was about their love, their commitment, and their desire to spend the rest of their lives together.
What’s Next for the Newlyweds?
Now that Gabby Windey and Robby Hoffman are officially wife and wife, fans are eager to see what’s next for the couple. Both women have thriving careers—Windey in television and entertainment, and Hoffman in comedy and writing—but they are also excited to focus on their new life as spouses.
Windey has been open about the joy and security she feels with Hoffman, sharing in a previous interview that her wife makes her feel “invincible”. Their relationship is a testament to the power of finding love when you least expect it and embracing the unexpected twists life throws your way.
While they may not have had a traditional fairytale wedding, their story is even better—it’s real, heartfelt, and completely their own.
Conclusion
Gabby Windey and Robby Hoffman’s wedding is proof that love isn’t about extravagant gestures or following societal expectations. It’s about finding someone who makes you laugh, supports you, and wants to dance with you in a Las Vegas chapel just because it feels right.
Their journey—from a surprise relationship reveal to a crossword puzzle proposal, and finally, a spontaneous wedding—has captivated fans and showcased a refreshing, authentic love story.
As they embark on this new chapter as wife and wife, one thing is certain—Windey and Hoffman’s love story is only just beginning.
